I HAVE to say this: A lot of people wanted Callie to be angry and lash out at Arizona. And thought her reaction wasn’t big enough. But since this moment in 9x01, Callie has fought like hell to get her wife back and get their life back. She’s played the bad guy. She’s cried and screamed with Arizona and she’s also kept quiet and took it. She’s given all she can give. Put all her energy into this woman and this marriage only to lose Arizona anyway, along the way. She is exhausted and right there she just gives up. She’s defeated and she’s got nothing left to give.